When i saw you smile 10 years ago....

When I saw you smile 10 years ago....
I had no idea of your importance in my life...
we met... we became friends.. we lost touch...
but the bond remained....
an invisible bond....
meeting you again... after a loooooooong time...
& deciding to spend the rest of my life with you...
seems so obvious now...

but it was not...
when i saw you smile 10 years ago....

Now, You have become my guiding light
Now, you are the glue that keeps me together...
Now, that beautiful smiling girl is the most important  person in my life...

But when i saw you smile 10 years ago
i had no idea;
that 8th may will become the most important date of my life too...

Today, is your birthday....
what can i wish for you...
i will like you to have whatever you want to have in this life....
I wish you always be happy with me...
i wish we be together like this forever and ever....

But Birthday girl i have a wish that you need to fulfill today.....
I want you to see the same smile always.....

As, When i saw you smile 10 years ago.

lots of love and  A very very Happy Birthday Dear.....

  PS: Written on special request of a friend for his fiance's birthday.

Sonu Anand

for my birthday 17-4-2011

i had thought i will write this i will write that but i think all my thoughts sums up to this :)

I have nothing to be called materially worthy in this world.

But I am Happy I can say very Happy

because I have Hope and a trust on being on the right path :))))

AND NOBODY CAN ROB ME OF THIS :)

Sonu Anand

Niceeeee

Those who work at a thing heart and soul not only achieve success in it but through their absorption in that they also realize the supreme truth—Brahman. Those who work at a thing with their whole heart receive help from God.

- Swami Vivekanada

like this one too

This is the first lesson to learn: be determined not to curse anything outside, not to lay the blame upon anyone outside, but stand up, lay the blame on yourself. You will find that is always true. Get hold of yourself.
-SV

Someday Somewhere...

I was looking for my Mobile to know what date is today;
 but does it really matter what day, when or where????

the real thing that matters is what we have in our hearts...

truth or lie...
honesty or dishonesty...
forgiveness or revenge...
helpfulness or wickedness.

There are many things we look for in life.

Yes, every now or then we are looking for something or the other.

Sometimes I wonder, Why do i break my head all the time?

Seriously why??
Why do i need answer for everything???
why can't i just move on?
Why can't i forgive the wicked?

Who have done what they have done because they got what they got....

Why am i holding them up in my life in my mind??
Why not forgive them and let them go?

Go away you wicked people... go away from my mind...

i forgive you..
be blessed be happy
i won't curse... i won't care...

i 'm letting you go...

i can build my mansion again;
i can rise again;
i can trust again;
i will be what makes me;

ME

i won't change because of you..
i won't lose because of you...
Oh! wicked people

You are free...

To be true you are not my enemy..

My enemy is only me and my friends are many...

No matter what  situations or surroundings are,
If i lose it is only because of me.

No matter what, If i give up it is because of me.
the blame is mine because the effort has been mine..

No matter what road blocks you put...
the decision to stop has been mine...

I may share the winning trophy with my associates;
but the entire share in the loss is mine.
because the decision to stop has been mine.

Though you are irrelevant in my journey of life,
but you got to listen to this,
 anyways you are more interested in my journey than yours..

So listen...

though there is darkness all around my life now...

but listen my dear...

like the sun does not shine in the night;
but he is still burning...

So am I...

though you can't see but i am burning
I am burning...
with excellence...

And When my night goes 
My morning will come....

then,

I will shine as bright as hard as fierce

as our sun...

That you will put your Sun glasses on...

Sonu Anand

Anger is costly...

Since, I can remember I have known anger to be extremely costly in other words you can say it is a luxury for those who can afford...

Because every time you get angry it comes with a price tag.

Costly
Very Costly
Somethings money can't buy for those things you pay forever.

Someone's  irritates you, your  blood boils and you thrash that person.. or if you work for them you quit or if its your spouse you divorce them...

These are the   things which after sometime may seem irrelevant.

Your partner's irritating you on the fon... you throw the fon BOOM.. fon gone. but  partner's there and you are not even angry now... What to do??? somethings gone are just gone.

You may have noticed the people who get angry on silly irrelevant things are mostly on their own who will want bear them and WHY????

Because there is nothing in this world what you can get from me and only from me....
Every damn thing has an replacement...


So, I hope to keep anger aside and not be replaced.

Because i can be replaced you can be replaced ... every damn thing can be replaced.

Beware.. and don't be angry unless necessary...

or You are desperate to be replaced ;)
(like there was a person in my life who would do the same things and irritate me, con me in the same way but very sweet talker.. i let that happen few times.. but then enough is enough So... )
-SA

DROPS OF LOVE

DROPS OF LOVE

In the times of Swiss lewis, tax max, wiki mikki, 3G2G,

UG MG, CWG;

I money u money eat money sell soul money…

The circle of life on money…

Days getting darker and nights even more…

Who keeps all bright and who helps the axis roll,

In this crazy dazy hazy world… who cares?

Who cares? More than Swiss and lewis

About others?

Who cares? About others before themselves ….

Who? Cries when others do, who bleeds when other do????

Few very few…

Who labors continuously and sincerely….

First few days for their stomach… and rest few days for others…

Who lives for their own dignity as well as trying to get it for others too…

Who thinks everyone who breathes should be treated as one????

Few very few?????

I know one of those fews….

Lucky to know one.

Lucky because they are the ones who help keep the circle of life on axis…

Few drops can make an ocean…

I just hope these few keep on believing this;

I just hope these drops of love make an ocean of love one day.

Sonu Anand

Explorer of life.

It's been a long time.. a very long time. It seems i have made it a habit of apologizing for the long gaps in my blog entries.  i should start like this without any explanation and everything will be explained on its own......

Once upon a time, there was a boy named Sonu Anand... who was clueless :)))))))))) about life and what to do with the one he was in control of. He wanted something perfect and in this cause he kept fighting the odds which were many. His friends became enemies and enemies didn't seem to care about him anymore as they felt he had made one worst enemy anyone could have i.e himself.  He kept his wellwishers always worried about what he will make of himself. He has been a person who had been given proper support for whatever he wished but he wanted a perfect everything. He ruined many of his productive years by looking for picture perfect life not realizing that life is not still it is moving... you can have a perfect moment but not life.... So, one day he stopped looking for perfection in himself and others. because there is no bar for perfection He realized a person can do only one thing what he is capable of.. it may be less it maybe more. No reason to cry over it as they say he accept himself as himself  and then the code for success was broken and he became accepted by one and all. Hence, he lived happily ever after ... :))  Welllllll almost ;))



Recently, i read  David Copperfield by Charles Dickens ...It started with this line will like to share it.... It goes like this....

WHETHER I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show.